Monthly Archives: March 2013

NLP Eye Movement Integration Plus – Trauma Resolution Training

NLP Eye Movement Integration Plus ( EMIPlus ) is a process based and very easy to learn way for clinicians and all people helpers to assist clients move through and recover from personal trauma.

Next training is 29-30 June in Newcastle and costs £90.

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EMIPlus can be used to help people with :

  • PTSD
  • Phobias
  • Traumatic Memories
  • Anxiety, Specific and Non-Specific

All of the EMIPlus Trauma Resolution training can be obtained completely free at www.emiplus.co.uk

The latest training coming in June 29-30 in Newcastle is a validated certification training where students can authentically add EMIPlus to the therapies they offer to clients. All students on certification are invited to add their web address and details to the growing EMIPlus therapists register.

This training is specifically orientated to change professionals such as hypnotherapists, counsellors, CBT practitioners and coaches who are in the business of helping clients break free of trauma’s and personal blocks.

Overt two days you will become fluent in the EMIPlus process and get the very latest EMIPlus developments, specifically the 3×3 grid and the ‘Bell Curve’ technique.

There are 18 places available on this Newcastle EMIPlus training in June.

Venue: Jesmond Dene Conference Centre

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29-30 June

Only £90

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NLP for better relationships

One of the most important aspects you will find out about on an NLP Practitioner training is that EVERYBODY lives in their own MODEL OF THE WORLD. This is a kind of psycho-cultural jargon that really needs to be explained and exemplified. a key stone in sponsoring better and improved relationships and all the fruits this can offer.

Specifically the improved relationships you want with your children, your partner and you peers and possibly even yourself.

I have recently worked with a very bright and transforming young person who is very much in the process of orientating and integrating their own ideas, beliefs and rationalisation in the mist of a very messy divorce between their parents.

NLP Better Relationships

I think very sadly, as reported, said person, is receiving contradictory messages, matter of facts and damming accounts that are funnelled in a kind or Either Or way.

No child should be required to endure this kind of push me, pull you in this context. Thing is they are, so, how can this be transformed into something much more constructive and generative?

To take a step back,briefly, before going forward, another way to attempt to get this idea across was made very famous by Lord Alfred Korzybski in his works related to language and how it conveys, or tries to, relate language to experience and the meanings people make from experience. OK here we are again. What Alfy said was “The Map Is Not The Territory.” And everybody has their own individual and to some very large extent culturally shared maps.

Our Culture – Our Rules – Your Indoctrination

A very recent BBC ‘news’ item delivering information about the current situation in Syria came to mind.

This can be interpreted or made sense of like this. Our words, our memories our beliefs and internal mental maps, cultural and individual, that are quite literally constructed or made up so that we can in some way make sense of our experience in our immediate environment.

I have done my best, in metaphor and direct examples, to sponsor the idea that all people have their own motivations, their own beliefs and that both, for that person is valid and their reality. I have also explored Syria in context with Northern Ireland and how children can be indoctrinated to an either / or culture. They were already ahead of the game because they were already using the clause ‘yes but in some situations …’

Our brains or more accurately our whole nervous system is geared up to abstract or assimilate the cultural norms of our society. It is very easy to look upon what is happening in Syria with disdain or contempt for a pretty disgusting use of sentient beings by sentient beings. But, look into the past ( less than 100 years ) of the racial hatred between factions of people in Northern Ireland.

One persons terrorist is another persons freedom fighter and both while probably having similar ethnocentric values and beliefs have radically different values and beliefs when projected on warring factions.

Managing Emotions And Exploring Your Values

Jean Piaget, a famous developmental psychologists research states people mature through four stages of emotional, cultural and necessarily behavioural development. These are known as Sensory Motor ( 0-2 ), Pre Operational ( 2-7), Concrete Operational ( 7-11 ) and Formal Operational ( 11 to adult ). What this means is through a natural series of normal evolutions we all go from ego centric to ethno centric to free thinking adults.

At the stage of Concrete Operational, young children learn that their view or perspective is not the only one. This stage involves taking on the perspectives of other people. At the Formal operational level, young adults begin to be able to think about thinking and it is at this stage, become aware that they can introspect about cultural, familial and ethnocentric beliefs.

One of the touching poems about this is by Thich Nhat Hanh, Please Call Me By My True Names

Managing Better Relationships

Having discovered that one perspective will not and can not fit all, we are able to take another’s perspective. We are in the privileged position to be able to, through imagination, knowledge of culture and identification of other peoples values and beliefs ( which as as concrete or flimsy as our own ) to momentarily play at being someone else; taking on their beliefs,values, concerns and righteous ( as ours ) behaviour. By being many-perspectival we can do compassion. This does NOT mean all views or perspectives are equal, it means we can more better appreciate and respect where someone, anyone is coming from.

This very deep and very human understanding, or compassion, can be sponsored with a variety of NLP techniques such as ‘Perceptual Positions, Dilts’ Meta Mirror, Metaphors or stories that create the vicarious experiences of often very deep and realisations that help us grow as generatively as human beings.

Managing and Preserving Relationships

This requires a next step which is both less and more easy. This is about discovering the purpose or intention that drove another person ( or you ) to act in a certain way. Perhaps a topic for another post. Simple to sya this is ALL about understanding that motivations and drives are expressed in various forms. When the forms don’t seemingly match we are into the space of negotiation. Thank you for reading.

NLP Training in Newcastle

Three NLP Training courses are available during the year. January to June is 18 days, April is 9 days over three modules and one later in the year. NLP Practitioner training is a prerequisite to Clinical Hypnothrapy Training in August. All NLP courses in Newcastle are the same price.

 

 

NLP Practitioner Training Course

Neuro-linguistic programming training course in Newcastle upon Tyne. 9 days NLP Practitioner training this coming April on 3-5,9-12 and 27-28 all for £595 and currently only four places available.

When you want new skills to make your life, relationships and state of mind much better, NLP is a very powerful psychological development system of choice. NLP Training will change your life in a variety of ways and here is why.

Because the NLP training is highly experiential it means you will practice all of the techniques and tools so you become very familiar with them. So specifically, what are some of the skills you will be developing?

NLP Practitioner Skills

  • Excellent Rapport
  • Precision Language
  • Clinical Hypnotherapy
  • Changing How You Feel
  • Understanding Your Motivations

NLP Training Newcastle

Its spring time! In between the snow, rain and wind, it is spring time and life is moving. The sap is starting to rise in nature and perhaps now is the time to begin a life changing journey. It may be that you have thought about NLP for some time or possibly you have recently discovered the appeal of NLP.

NLP is very much about being able to run your own brain in the ways that really make a positive difference in your life.

How Will It Be When You Can?

  • Feel more in control of life
  • Enjoy predictable interactions
  • Experience much less stress
  • Create and maintain excellent relationships
  • Anticipate your life getting better

Who Is NLP Training Suitable For?

NLP is suitable for anyone who wants to enhance their people skills and benefit from recognising and using language to assist and ethically influence.

NLP Training is an ideal complement for practising therapists, coaches and counsellors because the powerful process based change techniques will help you help your clients even better. The NLP Practitioner training is also the foundation level training for you when you want to go further and complete the Clinical Hypnotherapy training course.

NLP attracts a very wide and diverse group of people. Some of the people who have trained recently with Nigel are by profession Doctors, Mothers, Dentists, Film Producers, Therapists, Yoga Instructors, Sales Professionals, Students, Chemists, Human Resource Managers to name but a few.

You can Learn NLP this April but hurry up because there are only 4 places remaining. Booking closes 20th March. Secure your place with a £150 non-refundable deposit.

Guaranteed ZERO RISK: If after the first two days of the training you find NLP is not for you then you can have your money back no questions asked.

 

NLP Practitioner Training £595

Dates : April 3-5 : Wednesday-Friday,

April 9-12 : Tuesday-Wednesday,

April 27-28 : Saturday-Sunday

Venue : Jesmond Dene Conference Centre, Newcastle upon Tyne.

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